I noticed something yesterday while washing dishes. My hands were in warm water, but my mind was three hours ahead, rehearsing a conversation that hadn't happened yet.
It struck me how often I live this way. Physically here, mentally elsewhere. The present moment becomes a waiting room for whatever comes next.
Presence gets easier when you stop trying to manage every future version of the moment.
HubSpot’s Bold Bets Playbook works from a similar kind of clarity for startups, helping teams slow down the noise and make sharper go-to-market choices. Sometimes the next right move is not to think. It is knowing where you are and what actually needs your attention.
What happens when you throw out the GTM playbook
That investor was wrong. Gamma is now worth $2B, with 50M users and more than half their growth driven by word of mouth.
They're one of 6 AI-native startups in HubSpot for Startups' free Bold Bets Playbook. Replit grew revenue 50x after half the team pushed back on the strategy. Ramp generated 100M+ views from a single stunt. Clay's co-founder wouldn't hang up a sales call until the prospect DMed him in Slack.
Each one took a GTM risk most founders would never greenlight. Each one paid off.
MINDSET🧠 From planning your presence to trusting your presence
We think we need to plan our way into being present. We schedule mindfulness, set reminders to breathe, create systems to notice the moment we're in.
But presence isn't something you achieve. It's something you allow. The moment is already here, waiting for you to stop rehearsing and start receiving.
HABITThe anchor breath
When you catch your mind spinning into the future or replaying the past, take one slow breath and name where you are.
Not where you're going or where you've been. Where you are, right now.
Here is what that can look like in real life:
- Sitting in your car before walking into the store: 'I'm here, in this seat, about to go in.'
- Standing in the kitchen while coffee brews: 'I'm here, listening to the coffee maker, feeling my feet on the floor.'
- Lying in bed before sleep: 'I'm here, in this bed, feeling the weight of the blankets.'
- Waiting in line anywhere: 'I'm here, standing, breathing, alive in this moment.'
This isn't about stopping your thoughts or forcing calm. It's about remembering that your life is happening now, in this body, in this moment. The anchor breath brings you home.
Reset question:
Where is your mind spending most of its time, and what is it missing while it's there?
Presence is not built by rehearsing every possible version of the future.
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EXECUTIONDo This Today
- Notice the drift: Catch yourself when your mind starts planning or replaying instead of being here.
- Take one breath: Breathe in slowly, breathe out slowly, feeling the air move through your body.
- Name your location: Say quietly to yourself where you are right now, in simple, concrete terms.
- Feel something real: Notice one physical sensation: your feet on the ground, your back against the chair, the air on your skin.
None of these steps take more than ten seconds. That's all presence needs.
One more thing
Your life is not a rehearsal for some future performance. It's happening now, while you're reading these words.
Until the next self-check-in,
